Saturday, July 31, 2010

Ewww

I was reading at a blog I really enjoy, "Real Daughter" and she had written a post called: "Birth mothers hate me" and of course I had to read.... Well, I want to be the first to let you know that I don't hate you... and as a "FIRST MOTHER", I would like to give a big "Shut the hell up" to Birth Mom Buds and I find their official site offensive, especially when I saw that it is funded by damn adoption agencies, of course... it serves their fricking purpose, doesn't it.

There will absolutely be no change unless we stop screwing ourselves!!!!

Thursday, July 22, 2010

Just the facts...

I find it interesting that people who lobby for closed records use the abortion card, when the real fact is, that abortion is chosen more often by first mothers who have placed a child for adoption to avoid the pain, than by women who are in fear of their child "finding" them one day...

So ... shouldn't they be lobbying for an end to adoption too, if that is their reasoning? if it causes more women to have abortions? or perhaps, they should give it up and give adoptees their OBC's...